Because…you beautiful poly people, I totally love your fierce loyalty and utopian desire to see the good in everyone and make things work and communicate and set boundaries and find ways to joyfully connect in an imperfect mixed-up world…those of you in my small, self-selecting sample of poly Letter Writers* are TERRIBLE at breaking up with people when it’s not working because even more than most you need to find some logical, watertight reason.Otherwise, it’s “But he’s really a lovely person who means well, surely we can make this work out at some level, and I can get x and y needs met by somebody else if I need to.
What nerd doesn't appreciate a good flowchart? This was just one of the four different STDs that Tribe member Jordan Bell and her husband created.
I love Minted's "Love Flowchart" Save the Dates! Triple word score Scrabble STDs from Tribe member Pencil Witch.
The STD was from Megan and Rusty's unicorn and giraffe wedding.
I was totally hipped to these vintage comic book style STDs via Neatorama.
They're made by Etsy shop Team Welser and they're pretty incredible.